Tuesday, December 27, 2016

Adoption Day: Kit & Lea

Last Christmas, Joe and I surprised the girls with the gift of their dreams. They each got their very own American Girl doll. Ella got Grace because she has always loved baking. She fell in love with Grace and all things Paris after watching her movie on repeat for months. Abby got Mary Ellen, a teacher from the 50's who loves poodle skirts and her jukebox. One year later and we have never once regretted the decision to get the girls this special gift. They take extra good care of them and treat them like they are real kids. I'm sure when they look back on their childhood these will be the dolls they will always remember and keep forever.

All that to say, two months after they got their girls, they decided they couldn't wait to "add to their family" with another American Girl. They started studying the catalog and creating their wish list for us. While this is totally sweet, that was our cue to teach them just how special and expensive these dolls are and help them understand it isn't something we can just get whenever we want to. We encouraged Abby and Ella to make a plan and start saving their own money for their next American Girl. Joe and I promised that if they both saved up the money, we would take them to the American Girl store to adopt their new kids. This was no small task for a four and six year old, but they were up to the challenge and took it very seriously. Ella was saving for Kit and Abby was saving for Lea. We made charts and they saved their money from March to November. Ella reached her goal first (thanks to a July birthday) and assured Abby that she would wait for her as long as it took. She waited and Abby kept saving. Abby finished up sometime in late October, so Joe and I planned a surprise trip to Boston for adoption day!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_sGWc-tqjfg

We loved seeing the looks on the girls faces as we pulled into the mall and they started to realize what could be happening. I encouraged them to bring Grace and Mary Ellen with us for a ride. I thought they would want to be there for the special moment. :)

 
 

Taking my girls to the American Girl store has been a dream of mine for as long as I can remember, so I loved every minute of it. But, the most amazing part of the whole experience was knowing how hard our girls worked and saved and choose not to spend for months just to have this moment. Watching them experience the fruit of their hard work was so much better than gifting them another doll for Christmas. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i1nHRAt_blE


"Kit! I'm here for you! I'm here to take you home today!" - Ella

 

 Because Joe and I weren't spending any money on the dolls, we surprised the girls with appointments at the hair salon for Mary Ellen and Grace. They got to pick a hair style and special ribbon for their dolls and then watch them make the dolls hair like new again. 

 
  
 


We told the girls that we were driving to Boston to meet our friends for lunch, which was totally true.We just never told them about the pit stop we were making before lunch. The girls were so excited by their morning, but pretty wiped out by the time we sat down for lunch with Chrissy, Terry and Devon. Our whole lunch looked like corralling four kids and a whole lot of half finished sentences, but it didn't really matter because we've been friends since we were 12 and we get it. We did look around as we were seated at our table and wonder when we became a party of 8! :) Look at this sweet guy! He reached for me and gave me a hug as we were leaving.


This day was full of surprises. After lunch, we piled into the car and told the girls that instead of heading home, we were going to visit Uncle Tommy who is studying at MIT. We got to see his new apartment and explore his neighborhood a bit. The girls were pretty excited about their first ride on the T. Well...Ella was terrified until she was in her seat, but she didn't want the ride to end once we got going.




We took the T to Harvard and walked around campus for a bit.

 

We grabbed dinner and made sure we snuck in a quick visit to Uncle Tommy's campus before it was time to head home. The girls got a quick tour of the management school and saw what one of his classrooms looks like. We were so thankful for our time together.

Our day was full of Saturday adventures and lots of new memories were made! It was a great trip.



Welcome to the family, Lea and Kit. We've been waiting for you!



Wednesday, November 16, 2016

October Snapshots: part 2

Ella and Isaac made the most of the hammock before we put it away for the winter. Meanwhile, Juliet located some rabbit droppings in the yard and decided to see what one tasted like. At least she spit it right out and didn't actually eat it. ๐Ÿ˜ถ


We sent this guy off onto a new chapter of his life this month. We fed him well, had a "get the nerves out" dance party and prayed him into his next big adventure. It's a privilege to be his sister. We are proud of you, Cory, and are excited to see what God has in store for you next.


Enjoying our nine year anniversary to each other (exactly five months later) at the Carrie Underwood concert! We left all the girlies at home with Grandma and were pumped for a much needed night out together, all the quality time, our favorite pizza and Carrie Underwood. #delayedgiftsarethebest #stillcelebrating #almost9andahalf #lovehim #thestorytellertour



Great night. Great concert.


School pictures: first grade ๐Ÿ”น pre-K ๐Ÿ”นone year


We are all enjoying frequent weekend visits from Uncle Cory!


Story time with Daddy


It wouldn't have been the first month of fall without our first round of sickness.


Sick day: high fever, two naps, wearing daddy's tshirt all day, lots of movies, a few bites of chicken noodle soup and crackers


Juliet tried to fight it, but eventually the nap won. ๐Ÿ˜‚




Abby reading some comics with Daddy before bed

Wednesday, November 9, 2016

Halloween 2016: Ladybug Edition

This Halloween, our house was filled with little ladybugs and lots of friends. We invited three families (the Cauwels family, the Torn family and the Togias family) over for dinner and trick or treating. It's always fun dressing up and getting candy, but it's even more fun when you get to do it with friends.





 It was chilly, but this little bug stayed pretty warm and loved taking in all the sights around the neighborhood.


Candy security didn't disappoint this year. Neither did Daddy Ladybug.







"Did you say candy? This sounds like fun. Yay!"


ladybug - barista - ninja - Rainbow Dash - Sleeping Beauty - ladybug - Captain America
not pictured: two little cows and a little ladybug


When your girls ask you to wear their antennae...

best daddy

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OxaAnHcFrp8


Ella's Goes to the Farm

Ella and I took her first class field trip this year to the farm. We walked through a corn maze, took a hayride to pick pumpkins, fed the farm animals and finished the visit with cider and donuts.



Ella holding Mrs. Keel's hand through the corn maze.










A special morning with my girl complete with a white pumpkin (our favorite).


Juliet Grace: 13 months


To our little Julie Beany-




...and just like that you stood up and became a toddler.

This month, you became:
1. our first child to fall down a full flight of stairs face first (no injuries, thank God!)
2. our first child to try to eat wild rabbit droppings in our backyard (seriously?)
3. our only child who will stop at nothing to get at the chemicals under the kitchen sink (child safety locks, anyone?)

You make us laugh, give the best hugs and kisses and keep us on our toes in ways your sisters never did!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wRgqTGvA_S4


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d5lVOJ0523g

13 months looks like:
  • giving "high fours"
  • saying more words like "hi" and "up"
  • picking up everything, pretending it's a phone and saying "Hi!"
  • all done nursing
  • clapping enthusiastically every time daddy comes home or walks through a door
  • big open mouth kisses
  • always wanting to be touching mommy in some way
  • giving your baby doll "loving"
  • crawling into your sisters room to play with them
  • puzzles with Ella
  • reading with Abby
  • practicing walking, but not ready yet
  • loves Elmo
  • reading all the books


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UYM48eF4zfQ




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cnIuTAynop4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DmzDDnBal28

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S4ruI37CjBk

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-WnFk9QFWNU

We love you, "baby llama mama drama"!

Tuesday, November 8, 2016

A Day at the Park



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hbu-_pvwa5Y




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HbcwNA7xuxE 


The Big Election 2016

Joe and I are sitting here watching the election results roll in. Everyone is talking about how our children and grandchildren will look back on this moment and ask us what we thought about it all.
There is so much I could say, but I will just say this for now.

These campaigns and the whole 2016 election process will go down as one of the messiest and nastiest in history. If nothing else, it has revealed just how broken we are as people (and as a country) and just how much we need Jesus.  I walked into the booth today thankful for the freedom to vote, but disappointed in the two people our country has chosen as our options, saddened by the hatred this election has uncovered (not just among candidates, but among friends and family members). I drove home praying to our sovereign God who is in control and has a plan no matter the results of the election are. My hope isn't in either imperfect candidate. My hope is in Jesus and because of that I can go to sleep in peace tonight.

One day when our girls ask, we will paint the whole picture of both sides. At this point, we have chosen to talk to them about the election in general terms, but not burden them with partisan views or our opinions of the candidates. We won't until they are old enough to process the realities themselves. We share as much as they want to know in a very age appropriate way, while pointing them to Jesus and encouraging them to pray for our leaders.

I acknowledge the celebration and historical significance of having a woman on the ballot this election. The impact Susan B. Anthony's fight has had on where we stand today as women in society  is amazing.  I just wish the woman on the ballot was someone I would encourage my daughter's to look up to. Before you think otherwise, I feel the same way about man on the ticket. Though Hillary Clinton is accomplished in many areas, she has many issues surrounding her candidacy (as does Donald Trump) that I won't overlook or celebrate in the name of feminism, history, lofty promises or the lesser of two evils. 

My newsfeed is filled with pictures of people cheering about how a woman president will give their daughters so much to hope for their future, proudly wearing buttons that say "So my daughter knows she can be president". 

As a mother of three girls, I will wake up tomorrow morning and look my girls in the eyes with the same message, despite how these results add up tonight. I will tell them "they can be" not because a flawed woman is elected president or not, but because Jesus is who He says He is and that doesn't change. "They can be" because He is.


On that note, I leave you with some sweet videos we took of the girls on debate day! 

Ella asked us about voting today. Who do you think you should vote for today, Daddy? FDR or Obama?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8_TsOO04TPc


Listening carefully to all the crazy

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=otxnUU4dAZg


And to sum it up: The whole 2016 election process has made me feel like this.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YqcMgt_DXk0